The life of a diplomat is one filled with intrigue, international affairs, and a passport stamped with more destinations than one can count. But what happens when the holiday season rolls around? Just like everyone else, diplomats have their own unique way of celebrating the most wonderful time of the year.

Homecomings and Family Reunions

For some diplomats, the holidays mean a heartfelt return to the homeland. Just like many U.S. citizens, they pack their bags, book flights, and embark on journeys to be with their loved ones. Especially for those with children, the pull of family is undeniable, and being able to spend quality time with relatives during the holiday season is a cherished tradition.

I personally decided not to go back to the United States during my two-year tour in Laos because the 30-hour journey was not worth it, just to be back in the homeland for 1 week. Also, it is too expensive for an entry-level government salary! However, for my second tour, I am able to fly or drive to Guatemala and spend the holidays with my grandma, family, and childhood friends.

Embassy Gatherings

Imagine being invited to a holiday feast hosted by the Ambassador. It’s a delightful reality for some diplomats who find themselves far from home during the holidays. In some countries, the Ambassador’s residence transforms into a warm and welcoming place, where singles and child-less diplomats gather to share the spirit of Thanksgiving and Christmas. Sometimes, other diplomatic families will also invite singles to their homes during the holidays. It’s a chance to create new traditions and build lasting friendships.

Friendsgiving and Local Celebrations

When diplomats find themselves abroad, they often forge strong bonds with colleagues and local friends. These connections can lead to heartwarming holiday gatherings, like Friendsgiving celebrations. Sharing customs and traditions from different cultures can make the holidays truly memorable and enriching experiences.

Wanderlust During the Holidays

For diplomats with a passion for travel, the holidays are an opportunity to explore new horizons. When December 2022 rolled around, I decided to spend Christmas on the sun-kissed beaches of southern Thailand and ring in the New Year amidst the vibrant hustle and bustle of Bangkok. During my December 2023 holidays, I added a short trip to El Salvador, on my drive back from Guatemala. Experiencing the holidays in a foreign land can be an adventure of its own, filled with new traditions and cultural insights.

The Emotional Side of the Holidays

While diplomatic service is an exciting and rewarding career, the holidays can bring a tinge of homesickness. Being thousands of miles away from family and friends can tug at the heartstrings. For those who find themselves without plans, it can feel especially lonely. I would say I had my own emotional rollercoaster during my first tour in Laos.

The Importance of Making Plans

As someone who’s been there, my advice is simple: ALWAYS MAKE PLANS, no matter how big or small they are! Creating your own holiday traditions and embracing the local culture can bring joy and comfort during this special season. For me, putting up a Christmas tree was a game-changer. It brought a festive atmosphere to my home, and even my local friends joined in on the holiday cheer.

In fact, they loved it so much that we had an impromptu photoshoot with the tree! The joy of the holidays transcends borders, and sometimes, it just takes a beautifully adorned Christmas tree to bridge the gap between cultures.

So, whether it’s a heartfelt homecoming, an Embassy gathering, a global adventure, or a cozy local celebration, diplomats find their own unique ways to make the holiday season special, even in distant corners of the world. Regardless of where you are, the holiday spirit knows no boundaries, and there’s always a way to bring warmth and joy to the season, no matter how far from home you may be.